My partner and I fight about truly everything.
It’s been this way for a long time, but lately, I’m not sure what our problem is, but it’s been worse.
Maybe because of the stress and that’s why we have been getting on each other’s nerves more than usual. Our most common fights are about the air conditioning system and the heater. My partner is constantly hot and I am constantly cold. He keeps sneaking around and trying to turn the air conditioning on when I’m not looking and it makes me so mad that I can’t believe it. I will come home from work some nights and my own home feels like the arctic! It’s gotten so bad that I have had to put an electric furnace in my bedroom just so I can get warm enough to go to sleep at night. This isn’t a problem for my always hot partner because he has been sleeping on the couch for the past 2 months. I hope he enjoys his air conditioning more than he enjoys sleeping in our bed! We managed to get into yet another fight a few days ago. I turned the a/c off and the heater on. My partner got so mad that the furnace was on that I thought he was going to punch the wall or something. It was truly ridiculous. I’m so sick of his nonsense that I guess I’m going to file papers next week. When the judge asks why we want a divorce I’m going to tell him that we have irreconcilable HVAC differences. I bet that will be a first!