For years I would always carry around a large purse wherever I went.
It was such an aggravation because everyone always asked to put their stuff into it.
My husband would ask me to hold onto his wallet, phone and car keys. Everybody at any event would want to put their stuff in my purse as well. I’d then be stuck carrying a 20 pound purse for the entire evening. It was super convenient for everyone else, but I felt a lot like a pack mule. Non even appreciated it. I then decided I’d rather give up access to a bunch of convenient stuff and not carry anyone else’s. I switched to a much smaller wristlet. It only accommodates my ATM card, phone and a comb. I need to wear my keys on a lanyard around my neck now. It’s actually more convenient because they are more easily accessible. My wristlet slips right into my back pocket if necessary. The best part is that no one asks me to carry stuff in my miniature purse. For a while I was unhappy that I’d lost the ability to vape. I enjoyed having my vape at a party or for the walk to the next bar. Thankfully I found a new type of vape equipment that solved the problem. I now use a vape watch. I install my favorite fruit pod into the watch and I am all set for the night. I can simply turn my wrist and inhale a hit from the side of the watch. It is really easy and discreet. Most people aren’t even aware that I am vaping. That is a nice extra benefit of it as well. I don’t need to explain myself.