I’ve actually had to stop and think about why people lie about various things.
Thinking about it, it often comes down to either looking out for yourself whether it is good or bad, or trying to protect other people’s feelings.
With my wife, I really had to think about it hard because something didn’t feel right for a certain period of time. You see, I am a personal trainer so I am always working with people with various personal training techniques. I always provide nutritional counseling in order to help people achieve the best results possible. You can’t just get out there and do the exercise by itself. Not to mention, when you are eating right, you are basically giving yourself a huge boost of energy which helps you to do the more challenging workouts. My wife used to be enthusiastic about eating healthy and working out all the time, but she kind of fell off. She was getting to the point where I would sometimes find junk food wrappers that she was hiding from me and she would sneak out places sometimes in the middle of the night. I was nervous that she might be cheating on me, but then I realized that perhaps it was something a little less direful. She still seemed to love me and all, but I came to realize that I was always pretty strict when it came to nutritional counseling and eating right. I wanted to make sure she was always working out at the gym regularly. I even tried to encourage her to go to a body wellness center, but she didn’t want to get into that. Eventually she admitted that she was going out to eat ice cream and junkfood without me knowing about it, but she promised she was not cheating on me. I was glad to hear that and I told her she could eat unhealthy food if she wanted, I just encouraged her not to eat it all the time.